Dream Wedding

A girl can always dream. Well in my case lots of dreams. First when i was a wee lil girl, it was being a princess and living in a fairytale. Then during those troubled 'no-one-understands-me' teenagers' phase it was dreaming that cute guy in school actually likes me back. Well now, at this age, I dream of having that dream wedding. I wanted first to have a grand reception. I wanted to wear a gorgeous gown and have everlasting pictures to remind me of that beautiful day. Well that idea had to be scratch with the growing amount of guests we have.

Then I wanted an intimate wedding. I just wanted the akad nikah ceremony and dinner afterwards. Simple, sweet and meaningful. Like that scene in ayat ayat cinta when the hero and heroin got married.

But the parents wanted a big reception. First one in the family getting married and all. Same with my fiance's side. He's the eldest son and the eldest grandson. The western culture never have guests attending weddings by the thousands. The malay culture do. In this case family from Singapore, terengganu, KL, Selangor, Pahang, Ipoh, friends, lots of close family friends, colleagues, VIPs.

Yup, so basically both me and F.D. decided that our wedding is a big party for our parents. The whole thing was out of our hands since the engagement. Sigh. Therefore I'm determined to have a beautiful wedding dress and gorgeous wedding pictures so I have hired the best. =)

Well that was the dream. In reality, everything is (so far for now) working out the way I want it. We made a few compromise and adjustments. Still much more to do. So the only time I am free to do any wedding vendor scouting is on sunday. Till then. Have a great day.